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Meeting My Lil’ One, 140 Characters at a Time

FACEBOOK STATUS UPDATE, MON, MAR 16, 2009:

3:49pm Christian reports: Berkeley (7lbs, 7oz - 20 in - 9.9 Apgar Scale) sends her love to all. She’s now feeding for the 1st time like she’s been doing it her whole life!

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BACKSTORY:

Two and a half years ago, I had the pleasure of meeting my son, Beckett, for the first time.

As a first time father, Beckett’s arrival in our Ft. Worth, TX hospital delivery room — and his mother, Karla, who did all the heroic work that life-changing day — truly humbled me.  Trying to convey to my own mother on my cell phone a minutes later what it like to see him born and to hold him in my own arms was nearly impossible.  I simply lacked the words.  Tears replaced them as I fumbled to express myself.  Luckily, she understood and let me go back to my wife and son, telling me to give her a call later that night when time allowed me to fill her in more fully.

While photographs have allowed me to ‘remember’ those first few minutes/hours of Beckett’s young life, so much of what took place that afternoon has faded into the funky contours of the human brain, lost to the natural passing of time.  Even the entries I posted on our family blog only hit a few highlights, often written long after they took place.  The sense of the in-the-moment immediacy and wunderlust, however, was impossible to translate…

…until now.

FAST FORWARD:

Two and a half years later, my wife and I returned to the same hospital delivery unit to meet our first daughter, Berkeley.

Since Beckett’s birth, our family blog has magnified significantly from a tepid attempt to semi-privately ‘journal’ a few family moments here and there to the development of a robust hub of digital stories, photos, and videos that are now regularly shared with hundreds of family, friends, colleagues, and strangers around the world.  At last count, we’ve crossed the 2,250 blog post mark…and that was before our daughter’s birth.  We suspect a ‘few’ more will be added, too.

Additionally, we’ve added an iPhone to our tool set, not to mention dualing Facebook accounts for both parents. This means that just-in-time storytelling options have been magnified far beyond the boundaries of what a family blog can pull off.  Seems that blogging is so last status update.

It was only a matter of time before we’d put it all together, letting our family and friends grab a virtual real-time seat with us as we prepared to deliver our daughter via type-n-post Facebook status updates. something that would have been inconceivable not that long ago.

  • Ever wondered how you’d tell the story of your child’s birth through the lens of 140-character Facebook status updates?
  • Ever wondered what it’d be like to Facebook status update every step leading to, during, and after your child’s birth?
  • Ever wonder how such a story would read, one status update at a time?

This is our story, told 140-characters (or less) at at time.

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Review and Contest: Bath by Bettijo

Ok, I admit it. When I offered to review Bath By Bettijo’s Sweet B. skin care line for children, my motives were completely selfish. So, when the package arrived with bath products that I could try, too, I was pretty excited.

I tried three products:

Lavender Soothing Baby Oil ($14.50)

Organic Shampoo & Wash ($16.50)

Shea Butter Soothing Lotion ($16.50)

All three felt completely luxurious. I love the smell of natural products. The baby oil and the lotion are my favorites of the three. The baby oil isn’t greasy, smells like lavender and gave me a reason to pause for a minute after a busy day and a splashy bath time to rub Braxton’s feet, legs, arms and belly. And surprisingly, he paused too. Anything that can create special quiet moments with a toddler is worth any price!

The lotion smells like shea butter, which I love, and is thick and soothing. It goes on clean and absorbs quickly. After spending too much time in the sun last weekend, I don’t think another product on the planet could have felt as good on my skin. Oh, and I’m sure Braxton agrees, too. If your tot has mild eczema or super sensitive skin, shea butter can work wonders.

The shampoo & wash was also terrific. We used it mostly as a wash and it had the lightest scent of the three products.

Other products also available in this line: Babybottom Balm, baby powder and hair conditioner.

I absolutely recommend these products. Soothing, luxurious and good for mom and baby.

Win These!

We have 1 Sweet b. Shea Butter Soothing Lotion and 1 Sweet b. Organic Shampoo & Wash for our readers - all you need to enter is leave a comment here. The contest will end September 2nd and the winner will be notified by email shortly after. Super easy to enter, why not try?

Kelli is mom to Braxton, age 2, and partner to Mike. She is an instructor at the University of Oregon and a public relations consultant with her own firm. Thanks to growing up in a large family, she’s learned to manage chaos and still have fun. You can read her posts here.

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I’m heading up north again tomorrow (yes, AGAIN!) for a visit with family, but mainly to attend the baby shower of one of my best friends. I’m so excited to be attending and I’m so mad at myself that I’m going to be seeing her pregnant for the first time and she’s due next month! I’m a BAD friend, I really am.

Hey, Beth - if you’re reading this before Saturday, you might want to stop RIGHT NOW - spoiler ahead!

Anyway, of course, with a baby shower coming up, I had to pick out a gift (and yes, I got her some batteries, don’t worry!) and ran into the veteran parent quandry - do I buy her what she registered for or do I buy her what I think she really needs?

I know that it’s so annoying as a first-time mom to have all of the veterans telling you that you need this and you need that - when I was pregnant for the first time I wished everyone would just SHUT UP and let me do my own thing! As a mom, though, I just want her to be able to avoid all of the learning that I had to do - I want to tie up all the lessons I learned and mistakes I made and put them in a pretty package and save her all of the trauma that new moms have to go through.

What did I do? Well, first I went and bought a gazillion baby supplies off of her registry - seriously, a gazillion, and then some batteries. Then I talked to her and found out that no one had bought the jogging stroller that she had registered for at a different store. This girl walks, and walks, and walks, and has 2 huge dogs - she NEEDS a jogging stroller! This is where my veteran mom part of me just overrode all “shut up and let her learn” voices in my head and took over. I returned all of the baby supplies and focused on the jogging stroller.

See, I’m the queen of stroller research - I could have written a book on it when I was pregnant with both of my kids, first on single strollers then on double. I checked out the one she registered for and realized that it was the same price as the one that I ADORE and recommend to everyone on earth. (the InStep Safari) I’ve used this same stroller (but in a more boring blue color - why does all the cool stuff come out when you’re done buying baby stuff for yourself?) for almost 3 years now and just know that my friend will love it as much. So the question was, do I get her the one she registered for or get her the one that she NEEDS?

I got her the one she needs - yup, I’m the annoying veteran. I do remember her commenting on mine once when my daughter was a baby and we’ve discussed strollers several times, so I’m fairly certain the only reason she registered for the one she did is because it’s the only one remotely close to what she wanted at that store. I knew she’d want this one - it has a lockable front wheel, but can swivel if you want it to (LOVE this) and it is compatible with almost every car seat carrier there is - who wouldn’t love it? The one she registered for doesn’t do either of those, by the way. (Yes, I know there are different needs for serious, hard core runners, but for jogging and walking on all surfaces, this stroller is perfect.)

We’ll find out on Saturday if she likes it, I guess! The only thing I was worried about is if someone bought the one off the registry, so I called her and left a message telling her to go online and take it off the registry, but I couldn’t tell her why. I. am. a. dork.

Do you do the same thing? Do you prescribe to the Rolling Stones’ way of thinking when it comes to new moms - you know, “You can’t always get what you want, you get what you need”? Or am I just annoying? Sigh.

Note: I included the picture and link here to the stroller I bought because I LOVE it. No affiliation with InStep or JustStrollers, although if they’d like to sponsor a giveaway here I’d be MORE than willing to host one! hint, hint